The Best Shots Team on the history of the Spidey Marriage and a review roundtable
History by Lucas Siegel; Roundtable by J. Caleb Mozzocco, Kevin Huxford, Lucas Siegel, Richard Renteria, and Troy Brownfield
spoilers for "One More Day" ahead
The Spider-Marriage: A History and some Commentary by Lucas Siegel
“The years we’ve lost, Peter… The years we’ve lost to a lie.” -May Parker, Amazing Spider-Man vol 2 #38
Way back in
Amazing Spider-Man #182, it was Aunt May on what was thought to be her deathbed that made Peter Parker decide to propose to Mary Jane Watson for the first time. She wanted him to settle down, plus Harry and Liz were back together, and Flash even had an extended flame. Alas, this time around, Mary Jane declined. Peter went on to date quite a few women including two that fit in his blonde motif, Felicia “Black Cat” Hardy and Deborah Whitman. It was a few years and about 100 issues when Peter proposed again. In 1987’s
Amazing Spider-Man Annual #21, Peter Parker and Mary Jane Watson became husband and wife under the watch of Jim Shooter, David Michelinie, and Paul Ryan.
Since then, Mary Jane has been a central character for some of Spider-Man’s stories, but not all of them, by any stretch. Two storylines are very significant. First, Mary Jane had gotten pregnant, and may or may not have had a miscarriage. That plotline led to the alternate universe known as MC2, which hosts the current title
Amazing Spider-Girl featuring said baby all grown up and with her daddy’s powers. Much more recently, Mary Jane and Peter split up for an extended period of time, with MJ going to the west coast to pursue an acting/modeling career once again.
“But you’ve never been optional, MJ. Every happy thought I ever had begins and ends with you, and every unhappy thought begins with the realization that you’re not there, because I screwed up. I want to make it right, MJ, and I’ll do anything to make that happen. Anything.” -Peter Parker, Amazing Spider-Man vol. 2 #44
They found themselves longing for each other, and finally got back together, through a bit of twisted fate (and a little pushing from one May Parker), in Denver. In issue #50 of
ASM Vol. 2, the two finally reconciled, with MJ deciding to move back to New York to be with Peter again.
“I can do “all these things” because you believe in me. Because you give me the strength and the will to get them done. Everything’s easier when you’re there and harder when you’re not. Without you, nothing works the way it should. But when I know you’re there, in my life, I feel like I can do anything, MJ. Anything.” -Peter Parker to Mary Jane, Amazing Spider-Man Vol. 2 #50
From here, the family of three, Peter, MJ, and May, went through much together. They went through Peter’s discovery of a long, totemic link between man and spider. This led to a transformation, and Peter gaining new aspects to his Spider-powers, and new powers altogether. May and MJ moved into Avengers Tower with Peter when he joined the Avengers, and moved back out and went on the run with him when he defied the Super Human Registration Act. Before that, it was with the support of the two most important people in his life that he unmasked to the world.
May Parker has been around as long as Peter (comics time, of course). She’s been his backbone, his crutch, his support, his mother, his aunt, his friend. She’s set him up on dates, helped his image, and even been a straight man for some of Peter’s trademark quipping. May has taken a backseat to other supporting cast members, including MJ, several times. She’s also died (for three years, even!) or almost died many times, including recently being kidnapped in the pages of
Marvel Knights Spider-Man. After helping convince Peter to unmask at the beginning of the
Civil War, and subsequently going on the run with he and MJ, she was shot by a sniper sent by Wilson Fisk, Kingpin. A distraught Peter went about trying to find a way to help her, and revive her. At one point, he even had Madame Web send him into May’s mind.

“Peter...I don’t WANT to come back. I’m tired, Peter...and I’ve been down this road...too, TOO many times.” -May Parker, Sensational Spider-Man #39.
Joe Quesada doesn’t really keep secrets. In fact, if there’s something he’s thinking or feeling, he likes to announce it to the world. Quesada hasn’t been the biggest fan of Peter and Mary Jane as a married couple. This is despite the further strengthening of their relationship during his run as Editor-in-Chief. Joe Q, during his initial run of “Joe Fridays” articles here at Newsarama, liked to talk about his genies and his desire to put them back in their respective bottles. The Mutants are taking over the world, there’s no real tension and danger in the Marvel U anymore; and Peter Parker is married. These are the things Joe Quesada set out to “fix” in his editorial capacity.
House of M and
Civil War took care of two of those things, for certain. It can be argued, of course, to what degree of success, but Marvel has had higher sales than in years past, and the public as a whole seem to be enjoying many of their flagship titles, with good reviews outweighing the bad in their core, or as I’ll call it to Joe Q’s chagrin, “616” universe. As Joe Fridays became New Joe Fridays, Quesada started to preach to the masses his dislike of Peter Parker’s marriage. He claimed there were no stories that could be told with a married Pete that couldn’t be told with a single Pete, and that vice versa was not true. Peter being married crippled the character, and made him un-relatable. Many others at Marvel expressed the same beliefs to him, though very rarely was it said it in interviews or public statements. One thing was for certain, if there was an opportunity for fans to question Quesada, whether at a panel (like the
X-Men Panel at Wizard World Chicago 2007) or in an interview online, the issue of the “Spider-marriage” came up. The fan response tended towards disagreement (as shown by
our recent poll). Regardless, the marriage was dissolved. How it happened, what it changes, nagging questions, and what might be good about it, are all items of much contention.
How it Happened
Peter Parker made a deal with the devil.
I’ll let that
really sink in.

Mephisto, the Marvel Universe’s Devil, saved Aunt May’s life. He came to both Peter and MJ, and told them that if they would give up their love, their marriage, he’d save May. The catch, as there always is with the Devil, is they would both feel some pain of loss from losing their marriage, and the knowledge that they also essentially killed their unborn child by wiping her from the possibility of existence.
What this Changes
Well, for starters, we see at the end of
Amazing Spider-Man #545 some of the immediate effects. Harry Osborn is back from the dead (won’t Norman be surprised?). Peter no longer has organic webshooters, which implies that the heightened version of his Spider-sense and the “stingers” are probably gone, too, as they were all gained through a shared experience. Of course, Peter Parker and Mary Jane Watson are no longer married. They still dated, of course, and we don’t know yet how/when/why they broke up. May is alive and well, although there was never any guarantee or indication of for how long. Peter’s identity is back in the realm of secret, and this is the thing that causes the most problems. That’s what we know so far.
Nagging Questions
Did JMS’s entire run get retconned? Is
Amazing Spider-Man now being told several years in the past? What was new Peter’s role in all the major events that have happened since his original wedding day? For Example: Maximum Carnage, the Clone Saga, House of M, his joining the Avengers, Civil War… aren’t these stories now fundamentally changed? Mary Jane provided a sense of balance to Peter, and also had interactions with just about every major super-hero in the Marvel Universe; how does this butterfly effect harm/advance them? Shouldn’t some characters have died or
not have died as a direct result of never having been exposed to MJ? Didn’t Peter
stop wearing the black costume because it frightened his wife (who was reminded of Venom)? Will Peter have repercussions for making a
deal with the devil? How does “with great power comes great responsibility” fit in with making a deal with the devil in the first place? What if Mephisto gets bored and tells MJ? Or Peter? Or May (“What have you done Peter…
what have you done”)? And of course, what did Mary Jane whisper to Mephisto, and is it just a Deus Ex Machina for this Deus Ex Machina? These are really just a handful of the questions of the volumes and volumes that are possible that fans have to ask now that this story has gone through. Bendis has said that Pete will still be on the Avengers, but like many fans I just don’t see how – after all, did he move into Avengers Tower pre-
Civil War with just Aunt May? Who was Wolverine hitting on then? (Of course, that’s a whole other ball of wax, as we’ve been shown recently; Wolverine’s brain has this issue with being toyed with, and fights – hard – against manipulation.)
What Might be Good?
Well, it got people talking, that’s for sure. Oh, and, for the most part, united, too.
Seriously though, this is the hardest question to answer. We don’t know what is in store for Spidey; no one has a crystal ball, and Joe Q and company sure aren’t going to spill the beans. The first thing fans who
didn’t like the story should note is the length that major changes last for Peter Parker, that is to say,
not long. His most recent two (The Other and Unmasking) only lasted about a year and a half to two years. Even when Aunt May died, as I noted earlier, it lasted a few years then went away, and the same with the baby he and MJ had. The Marriage has been around for 20 years (some 20th anniversary, huh?), so it obviously has some staying power. There are some interesting possibilities with this new status quo, of course. Peter’s supporting cast just instantly grew from MJ, May, and the occasional Avenger, to the large group of friends he used to hang out with, among some newbies. His job at the Daily Bugle should be back in place, allowing for that old crew to be back in his life as well. The dynamic between Peter and the Avengers, let alone the Federal Government and the super-hero community as a whole, will have to completely change. Seeing the new interactions, and discovering how his new life fits in with the rest of the world should be interesting, and could be exciting. One thing is for sure, it will be a big change from the stories JMS has masterfully (and some not-so-masterfully) told over the last near-decade.
The Best Shots Team: One More Day Roundtable
The Question: What did you think?
J. Caleb Mozzocco: Well, personally, I didn't like it.
While I agree with Quesada's oft-stated opinion that an unmarried Peter Parker is a younger-feeling, easier-for-kids-to-relate-to character, I was never sold on the idea that the Marvel Universe version needed to be de-married to achieve that status quo, particularly not when there's the already quite excellent
Ultimate Spider-Man (which has always been the best Spider-Man book), the usually very good
Marvel Adventures Spider-Man, plus
Spider-Loves Mary Jane, Spider-Man Family and any other out-of-continuity stuff Marvel wants to do. In fact, the married, more adult version of Spidey is the rarest one, as the Marvel Universe titles proper are the only places anyone can regularly tell the stories of the married Spider-Man (And besides, there aren't any kids reading
ASM, and, with
USM and
MASM--that's a lot of abbreviations, huh?--there doesn't need to be any kids reading it).
As for the books themselves, I didn't care for them at all. I enjoyed most of the JMS stories I read, particularly at the beginning of his run, but I honestly laughed out loud on his first page of OMD--the bit about tuning in to the frequency of despair or whatever--and I don't think it got any better from there, really.
I never understood the conflict at all. Aged, senior citizen aunt who got shot and was likely to die vs. marriage. Spidey came off as selfish, explicitly stating that the only problem with May being on her deathbed being that he couldn't live with it being his fault, not that she was dying in general. But hey, you can read people complaining about this, and the randomness of the devil getting involved, anywhere on the Internet, right? (And wait, our hero did a literal deal with the literal devil here?!)
I was kind of hoping for a twist here in the last issue, something to indicate that Quesada and JMS weren't really going to do what readers feared they would, but they did. The closest thing to a twist was MJ's
Lost In Translation moment, and the wiggle room it leaves, which somehow makes the whole thing more insulting to the already quite put-upon readers.
On top of overcharging readers each issue (sorry, but Aunt May's power rating and six pages of reprint aren't really worth an extra $1) and shipping this thing super-late, there's the fact that this big, annoying change that nobody at all in the whole world likes may not last longer than a couple of months anyway. Spider-Man's been changed forever! Unless we change him back!
Finally, I find the whole thing just completely confusing. Peter asks Mephisto how this works, and he's just like, "Eh, it doesn't matter." Actually, if Peter's reverting back to his 1970s status quo (I'm guessing; this is a status quo that pre-dates my ability to read, anyway), it does kind of matter.

If he didn't out himself in
Civil War, doesn't that change the course of the Civil War, and thus the whole Marvel Universe (not to mention all that father-son stuff with Tony Stark and the later bitter enmity between them)? Did he and MJ and May not live at Avengers Tower, does that change the course of Avengers history at all? Is Peter de-aged? Does no one in the Marvel Universe remember any Spider-Man stories? What the hell, guys?
I didn't even much care for the art, which is what I usually hear people saying was the story's saving virtue. Quesada's figures are fine, even if the faces and expressions usually failed to match the emotion of the script. And I honestly pored over the credits of this thing to try and figure out who drew the post-deal epilogue, as it looked nothing like the rest of the story, and seems even stiffer and more photo-referenced. Did a change in inker and colorist really change Quesada's art that much?
What was most interesting to me at this point in the story were the credits, particularly after JMS online confession about being uncomfortable being credited as the writer of the last half of the story (Quesada and JMS were both credited for the "Story," and there are no other writing credits; if JMS wrote the script alone, there's no credit saying as much), and then the last-page testimonials from Marvel creators saying how much they liked JMS' run.
These struck me as ironic, as everything that occurred during JMS' run, from Aunt May learning Peter's secret to the organic webshooters, seems to have been--at least temporarily--undone by his last story. Like it never happened.
Kevin Huxford: I believe that, on the very site our roundtable is appearing on, Marvel swore up and down that there'd be no reset button a year or so down the line on Peter's announcing himself to be Spider-Man. That, as it turns out, was an outright lie. While I can understand and sometimes tolerate the need to be vague or misleading in PR or interviews in order to try to create a measure of suspense or concern that a story is too weak or the audience too cynical to pull off on their own, I can't stand being lied to as a paying customer.
I also find it alarming that successful runs heading up the Big Two seem to lead to a severe case of ego. That ego causes an EiC to believe that they have such a Midas touch that they need to touch more stories in more ways. They seem to forget that spitballing ideas or approving stuff that crosses their desk doesn't necessarily mean that they are fully equipped to come up with a whopper on their own.
As for the book, you can feel editorial mandate dripping from this. So much doesn't seem to make sense in the interplay, most notably MJ. Just trying to look at this as a story, she never really got to have a believable reaction to the idea that she'd be wished away just for May to live longer. It is touched on only slightly in the beginning of the issue and then pretty much left there. Maybe the two pages of two panels being repeated with MJ telling Peter to shhh every third or fourth panel could have been given to that?
I'd have to agree with Caleb that it is a bit disappointing to have all of JMS's run more or less wiped out by this. I, too, liked so much of the early run. JMS and John Romita Jr. brought me into reading Spider-Man consistently for several years. The Gwen Stacy kids with Deodato art was probably the beginning of my wandering away, with
The Other putting the final nail in the coffin until this event. Of course, we've all found out that JMS wanted the kids to be from Gwen and Peter, not Osborn, with editorial killing that idea. If only this brilliant Mephisto idea (groan) had been thought up then, maybe JMS could have done it. One wonders, though...whether those kids being Gwen & Norman's means they survive this continuity pun...ahem...deal with the devil.

Which reminds me...the Superboy-Prime “continuity punch” was previously the stupidest idea for a reboot. This trumps that device, though, because at least the character that was brought back wasn't actively tied to what brought him back. You can't blame him for how he got here, but you can blame Peter for his situation. He may forever be remembered for having such tunnel vision about his aunt that he pissed away his wife, unborn child, and happiness.
Lucas Siegel: Well, I did the history piece as un-biased as I possibly could, now, for the shocker: This was utterly ridiculous.
Caleb, you bring up the number one reason why it's ridiculous, and the point, that whenever it's been brought up in fan q-and-a's or interviews, Joe Q and staff have always brushed by and never answered. Why do we need this change, as readers? We have
so many options for stories of un-married Peter. Also, how, exactly, is this
not a Crisis-like continuity change? And/or, does it just make the
need for a Crisis-like change? Yes, I can see some of the potential in the future stories, and the creative teams coming on
Amazing make me smile big-big, which makes it even more unfortunate that I won't be reading it. This book is dropped. You want to make Peter more accessible to a younger readership. Now let's really think this through with some logic here.
Goal: Peter more accessible to younger readers.
Point 1: Marvel, under Joe Quesada, has a no-smoking policy for its heroes. Joe reportedly thinks it glorifies and/or encourages kids to smoke and doesn't want it in his comics.
Point 2: To make Peter Parker more accessible to younger readers, the same Joe Quesada had him make a
deal with the devil.
This means, to me, that making a deal with the devil is more acceptable for our children than smoking. And yes, I know that the devil, depending on your beliefs, may or may not be real, while cigarettes and lung cancer are certainly
very real, but still – let’s talk about the message here – it’s okay to make a bargain with ultimate evil to make your life better (let’s be honest – that was what was at the root of Peter’s decision – “I don’t want to experience/can't live with Aunt May dying”), and allow you to put off a grown up thing like dealing with the death of, and mourning the passing of a beloved aunt.
And thus, I will no longer be buying
Amazing Spider-Man. This story appalled me, really, and takes away a lot of respect that I held for the people involved. At least JMS spoke out about it a bit. Now, I could eat my words, and I accept that. This could all be one huge red herring lead-in to the next big change. Maybe we'll see some real consequences, I don't know. I just don't see how you can possibly tell
any stories in the
entire 616 with a suddenly unmarried, re-masked, powered down Peter Parker without resetting the entire universe. And– you can bet your bottom dollar that upcoming
Amazing Spider-Man editor Steve Wacker’s nascent ulcer is going to grow worse, because there are going to be
legions of Spider-Man fans looking for that first slip where something that only a
married Peter could have known finds its way into a Spider-Man story (and not just in
Amazing, but in the stories of
every character that has encountered a married Peter Parker over the past 20 years)…which will require a Band-Aid to explain, as will the next one, and the next one, and the next one.
I can suspend my disbelief for a lot of things; as a comic fan, an avid video game player, a fan of anime and oodles of genre entertainment in virtually every field, I have to. But this one is too much. Oh, in case you didn't figure it out, I voted "ARGH! Worst. Thing. Ever."
Richard Renteria: How amazing was that. The most talked about Marvel comic since the Death of Captain America and Marvel managed to pull off something not even DC Comics could do – this storyline has the honor of being the one comic book I’ve read this year that really makes me consider no longer reading mainstream super-hero titles. Wall-punch, deal with the devil, either way you look at it, it is shoddy storytelling at its worst.

To lay the blame solely at the feet of JMS for this travesty would be a travesty in itself, as just like in “Sins Past,” Joe Q steps in with his big E-I-C shoes, and decides the direction of the characters, regardless of how much sense it makes for storytelling purposes. What happened to
Civil War having long-term ramifications for Peter and family? That’s what I was looking forward to, I already collect
Ultimate Spider-Man and
Marvel Adventures Spider-Man for my unmarried Peter Parker fix and I am quite content with that arrangement. In addition to ruining a relationship that was the exact opposite of forced (i.e. Storm/Black Panther) it ruined a perfectly good title that had a history of forward movement.
It’s unfortunate that JMS’s swan song on a title he helped to revive is one that came with so much editorial interference that you could actually see the bad writing happening in front of you. Let’s take a quick look at the fun that is bad writing for a moment: everyone knows who Spidey really is – now they don’t – on the surface that seems an easy enough fix, for a silver age story written in the ‘50s or ‘60s. So everyone on the planet forgets who is under the mask, cool, but what about all the images of Spidey’s unmasking do those all suddenly vanish? Does Norman remember who is under the mask? Not convinced of the bad writing editorial interference can cause, ok, let us take a look at Peter making a deal with devil – Peter knows other heroes who have had dealings with Mephisto; he’s been a big-time hero in the Marvel U long enough to even have his own dealings with this evil, so what does he do,
he makes a deal with the devil! Come on, even newbie heroes know the only deal you can make with the devil is a bad one. Also, is it just me, does Peter’s reasoning to move forward with this deal make absolutely no sense? He has forgiven himself and been forgiven for Uncle Ben’s death, this would have been the perfect opportunity to add a new layer of guilt to Peter’s already rocky life by allowing May to finally have the send off she deserves.
On the art front is the real writer of this storyline, Joe Quesada. Don’t get me wrong; I generally enjoy Quesada’s art. I loved him when he was doing
X-Factor and even enjoyed his stylized work in
Daredevil: Father, but because of how much I hated the story I was reading I could not enjoy the art. By the time I got to the end I couldn’t stop to “smell the roses” so to speak had no desire to revisit the scene of the crime. The words Make Mine Marvel now rings hollow in my ears.
Making a deal with the devil in a comic book is worse than leaving footprints on your victim’s brain [
Identity Crisis] or bringing back the dead with a well-placed wall-punch [
Infinite Crisis]. I understand the EIC of Marvel feels that this is the appropriate direction for the character, but it makes absolutely no sense given his very nature as a hero. Aunt May would be rolling in her grave, oh wait, never mind. I am honestly no longer looking forward to
Secret Invasion, I can see the end now, Tony makes a deal with the devil so everyone will forget about the Skrull invasion and since Mephisto is such a swell guy, I’m sure he will even throw in a secret identity or two, no strings attached, because that’s how the man in red rolls.
Troy Brownfield: When I heard that other guys were all down on OMD, I was really disappointed. Granted, most of the guys probably only knew them from “If You Leave”, but that alone is a classic track from a classic ‘80s film, and worthy of respect. There should also be some measure of appreciation for “So in Love”, “(Forever) Live and Die”, and “Dreaming”. It’s obvious that they weren’t as pioneering as Depeche Mode, but they’re better than Camouflage (though “Love is a Shield” is pretty great).
Oh, hang on. They meant “One More Day”? That changes things.
I’m not sure that I’ll have much in the way of new insight after all the points that the others have hit, so I’ll try to sum up and underscore.
1) This was a huge mistake. Marvel has been telling a string of successful interconnected stories, (most times) lovingly creating a complex and wonderful universe filled with relationships and realistic characters, and this is a huge monkey wrench right in the middle of the works. The minute that you have to start asking yourself where things fit and how they work, then you’re yanked out of the story. There’s no way that I won’t see Spidey show up for the immediate future in New Avengers and think, “Okay, since MJ And Pete weren’t married, then they didn’t live in the tower, and . . .”. It’s maddening.
2) Peter Parker, the guy who was supposed to be the everyman hero – the hero that kids, adolescents, and adults could relate to, made a deal with the devil. That’s bad. To elaborate: he made a deal with the devil to save his elderly aunt at the expense of his wife. Not only is that selfish and childish, but it’s a big middle finger to the idea of marriage in comics. Considering that the audience is aging, and considering that many of the readers may in fact be married or near it (like half of our review team), doesn’t it seem a little ridiculous to try to make us care about a hero that will sacrifice his marriage (and entire memory of it!) for a woman that’s been trying to die since Ditko drew the trapped-in-the-rubble scene?
3) It doesn’t improve the character. Like Caleb said, if you want unmarried Spidey, then he’s
all over the place. He’s in two other ongoing Marvel continuities. He’s in the movies. He’s in cartoons. He’s in collections. He’s downloadable. If you’re having trouble telling stories with a married character, find a writer who knows how to tell stories with a married character.
The diabolically ironic thing is that Quesada has noted a couple of times that divorce would taint the character. I find it funny that divorce will, but a deal with the devil won’t. Frankly, divorce would have been
much more in tune with Spidey’s hard-luck world.
Consider how this story might have gone if after May had been shot, MJ presented Peter with an ultimatum. It could have still been titled “One More Day”, only this time MJ might have said something to the effect of, “Peter, I love you, and I love May, but this is it. I can’t do this anymore. If we stay together, someone is going to die. It could be me, and it could be you. And one of us is going to end up heartbroken. I don’t want that to happen, but it’s inevitable. So it has to end now. Here are the papers, Peter. Please sign them and don’t contest this. I can’t take one more day of wondering when you won’t come home. One more day of wondering when Venom, or Norman, or some Hand Ninja who’s having a lucky day is going to finish it. For my sake, for your sake, for the sake of the children that I might have some day, we have to let it go. I’d give anything to have one more day with you, but I know that I can’t stay. It’s in your power to do the responsible thing, Peter. Let me go.” And write her out of the series
and universe for at least five years, maybe forever. Done. Point readers to
Ultimate Spider-Man if they want to see MJ and Peter together.
Sure, divorce is painful and messy and there are always emotional damages. But it’s
real. Stan Lee and Jack Kirby (and in this case, Steve Ditko too) built Marvel’s House of Ideas on the notion that the characters had
real feelings and
real problems. This would have been a sad, but honorable, way out of the marriage. As it stands, Peter, MJ, May . . . and the readers . . . all got a raw deal.